What is the right way to be in a relationship? What’s the magical formula? Well it turns out that there isn’t one as it is different for every couple. Some couples I work with have a feisty, competitive energy and with that comes a lot of passion and laughter. For others the relationship is characterised by kindness, consideration and loving support. Some may have a more dominant partner. Some never argue. Some argue lots but they enjoy the debate! And pretty much every variation you can think of. None is better or worse than the other as long as it is working for that unique couple. If both halves are being true to themselves and thriving in the dynamic of their relationship then congratulations, you’ve hit the jackpot. The mistake comes when we assume a relationship has to operate in a certain way, usually a way dreamt up by Hollywood, and compare ours unfavourably to those around us. Focus on what’s going well for you and work on improving the aspects that don’t make the grade. Pls like/share.