This is a brilliant article that I highly recommend you all read, and especially if you think you want to split up post-Christmas or that your partner is a cow / nob (technical term!). It tells you how you have to put the effort in & it’s not like the movies. And one of the first things I explain to clients is that it’s not about changing your partner, you have to take responsibility and change your own behaviours first. http://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/jan/02/where-did-happily-ever-after-go-and-can-you-get-it-back?CMP=share_btn_link
Updated Jan 5, 2016, 12:31 PM