Ok this is your last one for Christmas. We now know that there often can’t be a win/win but there can be a WIN. Huh? I mean a WIN for your relationship. When we step out of trying to prove we’re right, getting our own way or thinking our partner is an idiot, we have the opportunity to put the relationship first. And whenever you do that you’re onto a winner. Pause and think ‘what does my relationship need right now?’ and ‘how can I help it?’. When you put your relationship first, whether it’s with your partner, your kids or your mother-in-law, life gets easier. To help you remember to do this, note that WIN rhymes with GIN. As you pour your GIN think what your relationship needs for a WIN. (You could put that in a cracker it’s so corny but it might just help). Anyway Happy Christmas to you all, drink Gin, think WIN and eat Twiglets. Pls Like / Share. X