How’s your bank account looking after the summer season? I don’t mean the one with £££s in it. Instead I mean your Relationship’s Emotional Bank Account. We fill it up by depositing positive interactions with our partners – appreciating them, thanking them, hugging, doing nice things for one another, spending quality moments together etc. Then when they do something really flipping annoying, or you have a row, it’s the equivalent of a withdrawal. Too many withdrawals and not enough deposits leads to an unhappy, frustrated, disconnected couple. Whereas when we are in credit, it’s like a cushion of warm feelings that help to lessen the impact of any issues and the relationship can quickly just boing back up again. Maybe see if you can make a few deposits over the coming days …